Stop Pushing Relationships Away When You Want Them, Without Losing Freedom
Building deep relationships doesn't have to mean losing yourself or walking on eggshells. I'll show you how to stay present when things get intense, handle emotional conversations without shutting down, and create the connection you want without sacrificing your independence or changing who you are.
“Before working with David, I was unaware of how my relationship patterns were wrecking my relationships. I felt hopeless after trying books and podcasts that didn’t shift anything. Now I can feel and express myself, communicate clearly, and spot my patterns before they take over. It freed me.”
Here's What You'll Learn In This Masterclass
The "Panic Switch" Technique
Catch your brain before it hits the "run away" button when relationships get intense. This alone will save your next relationship.
Why Your Brain Thinks Intimacy = Danger
The evolutionary wiring that makes you pull away and the 60-second reset that rewires this response.
The "Emotional Capacity Building" Method
Handle your partner's emotions and deep conversations without feeling overwhelmed, trapped, or like you're losing yourself.
The Independence Paradox
Why trying to protect your freedom actually destroys it — and the counterintuitive approach that gives you both connection AND autonomy.
Break Free from Shutdowns
Stop the automatic shutdown response when things become real and vulnerable. Learn to stay present and engaged instead of retreating.
From Intellectual Control to Heart-Led Connection
Move beyond analysing and overthinking relationships. Learn to connect from your heart and create authentic, embodied intimacy.
Does This Sound Familiar?
Real Results From Men Like You
“It’s massively improved my marriage, my relationship with my children, my friends, my family. I’m now able to slow down, lean into discomfort, be vulnerable, and express my needs clearly. I feel more confident and able to lead in my relationships because I know who I am and what I want.”
“If you’d told me I’d reconnect with the partner I caused so much pain, I wouldn’t have believed you. This program unlocked the blocks that kept me from real intimacy, dissolved my fear of commitment, and taught me how to lean in instead of running away.”
“My partner and I separated after 5 years because I shut down and couldn’t communicate. Through this work I created v2.0 of our relationship — stronger, more conscious, and deeply connected. I’m showing up fully for her and for myself.”
About Your Host
I’m David Chambers. A men’s relationship coach who struggled with avoidant attachmant like you…
For years, I avoided commitment, shut down when things got close, and told myself deep love wasn’t possible for me.
I did the work. I faced my fears, learned to feel, and built real connection.
Now, I’m in a happy, committed relationship — deeply connected, open, and honest — and last year, we had our first son.
I help men break out of avoidance and build the kind of love and freedom they never thought possible.
If I can do it, so can you.