ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO CREATE OR SUSTAIN DEEP & MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS YOU DESIRE?
FIND IT HARD TO MEET COMPATIBLE WOMEN?
ARE OLD STORIES, NARRATIVES AND DYSFUNCTIONAL HIBITUAL PATTENS HOLDING YOU BACK IN LIFE?
DO YOU STRUGGLE TO SHOW UP IN YOUR LIFE WITH PRESENCE, DISCIPLINE, STRUCTURE, ACCOUNTABILITY AND INTEGRITY?
ARE YOU HAVING DIFFICULTY FEELING & COMMUNICATING THE DEPTH OF YOUR EMOTIONS?
If you answered, “yes” to any, or all, of these questions, I know how that feels, and I have helped men just like you solve these issues.
“The overthinking was crippling. I was overthinking every detail, thinking I wasn’t good enough to date the women that I found really attractive. And when I did get a date I’d often not go for a second date because I didn’t feel anything for the girls, as I wasn’t letting myself be open to the hurt or rejection.
I used to be scared of expressing what was on my mind and what I wanted due to the fear of being judged by women as being weird, creepy or boring. And after just 1 month of coaching I’m more confident and I am confident in talking to anyone anywhere.”
And I’m incredibly happy and excited by the results of working with David.
My confidence has increased massively and I am able to talk to women in bars and have long engaging conversations with them (and anyone else I meet).
I am so glad that I was open to it all (the coaching), I’m better for it, and can’t wait to see where this takes my life. I wish this had been around when I was in my 20s so I would have saved all that time struggling.”
How I transformed my way of relating
I spent most of my 20’s having copious amounts of meaningless sex just to get validation from women and boost my confidence, self-esteem and feel ‘man enough.
I also vehemently avoided commitment due to a deep-seated fear of rejection, choosing the wrong woman and expressing the depth of my heart.
And I thought there was something wrong with all the women I was meeting.
Yes, the hallmarks of an avoidant man.
As a consequence, my relationships were toxic, full of conflict, stress and infidelity.
It wasn’t until I made a conscious decision to change that I was able to turn things around. I embarked on a journey of self-discovery to uncover the core of what was holding me back from having the type of relationship I longed for.
With the help of expert coaches and mentors, I discovered the secrets to a flourishing dating life, deeply connected relationships, healthy emotional expression and mental calm.
And I am using all that I learned to create the most incredible, harmonious, passionate and conscious relationship.
NOW I CAN HELP GUIDE YOU THROUGH THIS SAME PROCESS AND TO THE SAME END RESULT.
Working with David will provide you with an amazing opportunity to really create the life you want and figure out what is getting in the way and how to change it. It will have a massive impact on your WHOLE LIFE and the way you live, feel and think.
“From relationships to business and everything in between. If they put the work in and take action, it will be a game-changer.”
- Elias, Entrepreneur, DJ and Drummer
The main problems men face today
Every man is different, yet the resulting lack of connection is the same. Some may lack confidence, overthink situations, lack depth or can’t assert themselves in life in the way they want, while others may feel emotionally disconnected, struggle with intimacy and be unable get overcome negative habits and patterns. Regardless of your current situation, there are practical steps you can take to improve your relationships and live a happier, more fulfilled life.
And those are just the issues that men can see and know they have. One of the most common issues men have is they are disconnected from their confident, powerful, assertive, sexy and authentic self-expression. They don’t even realise the extent of their disconnection and the detrimental effect it’s having on their life and relationships.
“My dating life is amazing! I’m just so chill and relaxed about it all.
No more overthinking every little detail, feeling like I’m not good enough or being scared of rejection.”
Problems You’re Facing
Here are some of the signs that you know that things are not going the way you want in your dating life, relationship, self-expression and sexuality:
Dating Problems
> When you do meet compatible and interesting women, you struggle to create a deep and soulful connection
> You are left not knowing why you can’t turn a few good dates into a real committed relationship
> You find yourself regularly being ghosted or told that the date was nice and you are a nice guy, but it lacked the spark.
> Do you want to be able to enjoy dating and create deep and meaningful connections.
> You date women but are often looking for faults in them, often looking for someone better and struggle to commit to one person.
Relationship Issues
> Your relationship is filled with conflict, misunderstanding, criticism and a lack of connection.
> You are confused about what your partner wants and needs.
> Unable to generate the type of passion that you used to have.
> You are people-pleasing in your relationship, not saying what you really feel and not asking for what you want.
> Do you want to be authentic, open and feel a deep bond between you and your woman?
Communication Struggles
> Totally disconnected from your emotions and feelings or unable to stop yourself from constantly being battered and thrown around by what you are feeling.
> Feeling numb to life and not feeling or expressing the highest of joy and passion.
> Overthinking, fear and judgement prevent you from authentically expressing who you are
> Afraid of being assertive, confident and embodying your natural powerful masculinity.
> Do you want to have emotional balance, have control over your emotions and not controlling you?
Sexual Worries
> You aren’t having enough sex and when you do it feels mechanical
> You feel disconnected during sex, your mind unable to be present and instead of thinking about your fear, shame and worries about your sexual performance
> You are suffering from premature ejaculation or other sexual issues.
> Do you want to have mind-blowing, deeply connected and pleasurable sex?
“The breakthroughs I got from the coaching programme was, how to be sexual and escalating in an authentic and non creepy way, getting really clear on what’s important to me in a relationship and more confidence in myself”
How The Authentic Man Can Help
I can guide you towards discovering your authentic self by uncovering your strength, confidence, and emotional depth. This will lead to a deep understanding of yourself, your beliefs, and your inner desires. This knowledge will help you eliminate dysfunctional behaviours and help you form the relationships you long for, both with yourself and the women you meet.
You will receive advice and coaching to develop deep emotional, intellectual, sexual and connections with women and date successfully, allowing you to have the relationships that you desire and deserve.
Ultimately, you want to live a life that you love, this is your deepest desire and my desire for you.
And to do this I create a 100% personalised 1-2-1 package just for you, tailored for your needs!
I have distilled 15 years of deep self development work, thousands of hours of reading, 100 hours of being coached by some of the top coaches in the world and lessons learnt from connecting 1000’s with people on 6 continents into a coaching package just for you!
“Understanding emotions, own and others, is really an important skill to have and use in everyday life. But it all starts with understanding one’s own emotions and learning healthy way to express these emotions. The idea is to build awareness and tools.”
Benefits of 1-2-1 coaching
If you feel uncomfortable opening up in group sessions, my 1-2-1 coaching offers a private space where we can focus on your specific pain points.
It could be helping you gain confidence, it could be guiding you to let go of the struggles, disappointments and pain you have been accustomed to when it comes to sex, dating and relationships.
Regardless of the area you want to work on.
My private 1-2-1 coaching sessions will empower you and equip you with tools and the freedom to be a courageous, loving and deeply self-aware man.
“I was lost, I was trying to be more masculine. But I didn’t realise till I worked with David that it was my feminine side that I needed to cultivate.”
My coaching focuses on any of these areas:
Dating Coaching
> Pull apart your limiting and dysfunctional beliefs and get to the root of your issues.
> Learn systems to attract compatible women into your life.
> Reinvent image with styling.
> Put an end to your fear of rejection.
> Creating deep and meaningful connections.
> Build rock-solid self-esteem.
> Turn overthinking into deep presences, the most attractive quality a man can embody.
Relationship Coaching
> Get in touch with your true wants, needs, and desires, and powerfully communicate them.
> Learn to resolve conflict with love, compassion, and mutual respect.
> Build trust in your relationship, yourself, and your partner.
> Create a potent sexual connection.
> Ending self-sabotaging of relationships.
> Stop people-pleasing and become a leader in your relationship.
Emotions Awareness
> Learn to deeply understand what you are feeling and why.
> Build confidence in expressing your emotions.
> Putting an end to feeling numb to life - never experiencing the highest of joy and happiness.
> Deal with emotional overwhelm without shutting down or blowing up.
> Retrain your relationship to emotions from seeing them as a weakness to seeing them as your superpower.
> Tapping into your vulnerability.
Sexual Intimacy
> Increase your sexual stamina and last as long as you want in bed.
> Remove shame around sex and your sexual desires.
> Learn techniques to take your partner to the heights of sexual ecstasy and experience a deeper pleasure.
> Replace overthinking with a deep sexual presence.
Healthy Masculinity
> Embodying healthy positive masculinity.
> Learn to be the leader that you are innately born to be.
> Learn to be assertive, kind and loving all in the same moment.
> Learning the power of harmonising your masculine and feminine energies.
“What I have gained is really a deeper understanding of what it means to be a loving maculine man and I now have a better map and compass that can guide me in my life. Also, I have a deeper understanding of what mastery in this realm of my life actually means.”
The type of men I work with
My 1-2-1 coaching course is designed to help men who are prepared to invest time and effort into effecting real change in their lives. Men who want to be more confident, who crave deeper connections, and are ready to uncover new depths in themselves. Men who feel disconnected from their masculine essence and want to trade meaningless sex for true intimacy, and men who want to be more in touch with their emotions and the women they meet.
The type of men I don’t work with
Men who think they already know everything about who they are. Men that just want to be told what to do, what to say and how to act. Men that want to prove they are broken, and no one can help them, and men who are looking for ways to manipulate and take advantage of women.
IF YOU ARE READY TO MAKE A CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE BOOK A FREE SESSION WITH ME TODAY TO FIND OUT HOW I CAN HELP YOU.
What you will get from coaching with me
A safe space where you can speak openly, and without judgment, so that you can uncover what is holding you back.
A male coach and guide who will provide you with the tools you need to build relationships that fill you with passion, happiness, and deep connection.
The ability to communicate your feelings and emotions confidently so that you can date intentionally and consciously create authentic, deep, and meaningful connections with the women you desire and ultimately a relationship that is a source of joy, passion and deep connection.
“I realised with David’s help that I was hurting myself. Though I was externally confident I was self-sabotaging. He’s honestly helped me to start loving myself again – to feel that I’m ok, that I can be and deserve to be happy. He’s helped find my path back to being happy and I will be eternally grateful to David to an extent I can’t fully put into words.”
The results you will get
Communicate from your true authentic self.
A deeper understanding of who you are.
The practical skills to tackle any challenge in your relationship or dating life with ease.
Get out of your own way and stop over-thinking analysis paralysis, and doubting yourself.
Fear will no longer rule your life or stop you from connecting with the women you meet.
Have the confidence to talk to anyone anywhere.
Become skilled and confident in approaching yours and other people's emotions to create a connection where there was once conflict.
You will be dating intentionally and consciously creating deep and meaningful connections with the women you are attracted to.
Be deeply connected to your feelings and emotions
You will have the ability to create emotional, intellectual, sexual and spiritual connections that have been lacking in your life.
Get clear on what’s important to you in a relationship.
You will be the confident man you have always dreamt of being.
Your incredibly authentic relationship will be a source of joy, passion, deep connection and self-mastery.
You will be able to open up and use your full range of emotional expressions.
BE THE MAN YOU HAVE ALWAYS DREAMED OF BEING.
David was open to tailoring the coaching 100% to what I needed
“He allowed me to find language and an approach to open up to my emotions and communicate them with confidence to my fiancé, which created deeper intimacy in my relationship.”
- Martin, Senior Developer
What’s the next step?
In the 60-minutes free introductory coaching call, I will guide you to greater clarity on a problem you are dealing with and what you need to overcome it.
I don’t do 20-minute discovery calls like most coaches. I give you an in-depth understanding of the root cause of your dating, relationship or sexuality issue and what needs to be done to fix it.
You will learn things that you didn’t even realise were getting in your way.
No obligation, no expectation. No high-pressure sales tactics. Just pure value!
We get to see if working together is a good fit for us both.
If you want my help on a longer-term basis, we can chat about my coaching packages and how I can tailor them to your needs.
How it works
STEP 1 - Schedule a time by clicking the “BOOK A FREE SESSION”
STEP 2 - Fill in a few sessions so that I know a little about you and I can prepare for the session
STEP 3 - Have an introductory coaching call with me. Get fresh clarity on your problems and what to do to overcome them.
How my coaching has helped men just like you
“I loved David’s feelings-led approach. By asking a series of simple thoughts, feelings and beliefs questions and listening to my answers, David was able to quickly identify that my underlying limiting belief was.”
“Very enjoyable and relaxing, David provides a comfortable space to learn and grow.”
“David is Great. There’s a lot of communication, a lot more than expected from the programme. He’s clear with instructions and also makes a lot of room for me to express myself and ask questions”
“I loved David’s feelings-led approach. By asking a series of simple thoughts, feelings and beliefs questions and listening to my answers, David was able to quickly identify that my underlying limiting belief was.”